According to karmic teachings, we always meet the same souls, only under different masks and different people.
The soul goes through this cycle of physical incarnation because it has some kind of debt or obligation, it is not entirely free.
Through interaction with others we are given the opportunity to free ourselves from the shackles of ‘bad’ karma.
The karma is nothing but the result of the acts we did from the lack of love and lack of connection to its source, according to karmic teachings.
Basically, we come from one energy source that we call LOVE. Through our lives we get glimpses of this beautiful energy and call it many names. In fact, the romantic love we feel for each other is only a glimpse of this source.
This LOVE source is our home, our real home where our soul comes from. And we come here, in this world, to project this LOVE through our interactions with others.
But as we go through our lives we forget where we come from, we tune out of this LOVE source and we hurt each other intentionally or not.
Due to lack of love we are consciously or unconsciously hurting others, or they are hurting us. That’s how we are making deviations from our LOVE source and creating these ‘debts’ or entanglements we need to untangle through certain interactions.
According to karmic teachings The Karmic records are stored in Akasha (the memory of the universe) and are not available to our conscious minds. But we can learn the lesson through the feelings and emotions that others provoke in us.
If a person fulfils its goal, they move away from our lives. Some people make us feel unpleasant when we are near them, so it is a bit of a relief to be liberated from them.
All people that we meet through life are our teachers, whose role is to help us to release from the poisons we are holding to.
The first contact with a person takes place on a visual level, but usually the attraction comes from another subconscious level, where there is a reading of subconscious karmic records.
Our karmic record and the karmic record from the other person “recognize” the essential thing for clearing our karma and so it comes to connection or entering in a relationship.
Relationships are possibly the best reflection of our karmic debt. We are looking at the LOVE source but through a mosaic of our poisons.
We are building a relationship with a person who reflects all of our suppressed ‘dirt’ which is preventing us to radiate with pure love.
In a relationship we are not growing by expressing our best features, which are not the real us, but by having conflicts.
The moments of conflict are worth of gold, because important things are happening. When we have our first moment of jealousy we should ask ourselves: ‘Why I have this feeling? What is this within me?’
These fragments are the weaknesses of our personality. Maybe, we have been outcasted in our childhood, and that rejection in our crucial period of our lives made us a magnet for these kind of emotions.
So in time, our personality polarizes and disintegrates a particular emotional experience such as fear, pain, hate, jealousy and so on, until one part of us continue to function stably.
We force our idea of stability in the relations with others. But if the behavior of the partner is out of that idea, and if we are not able to understand some of their moves, we are switching to fragments of fear, from where our mind draws its beliefs.
As much as we get rid of these fragments as closer we are to radiate with pure love by default.
The idea of karma is not for you to suffer, but to unite you both to unconditional love and spiritual integrity.
Its role is to bring you back to your natural frequency of pure love you radiated with when you were young, before you got all fragmented.
That’s why you meet the same souls in every reincarnation, to help you learn the lessons that will bring you back to your primary purpose, to spread LOVE.
We are all ripped pieces of this big puzzle. I am both, the drop (me) and the ocean (all the people), because there is ocean in every little drop. And as long as the relationships are not crystallize at this level, people will continue the cycle of incarnation in different lives and different roles.